Dating man understanding
I’ve talked to countless single men over the years about their experiences with women, especially those in midlife and beyond.
Here are some of their stories of dating after 40; dating that never turned into relationships, this is.
This “I’m never going to find a good relationship” gal leaves men unable to get any traction during courting or in a relationship.
The wall she has erected is just too high for him to climb in order to get to the other side.
She hasn’t mastered the life skill of introspection, so she’s blinded by her bitterness.
These are logical conclusions that are based in some measure of truth. I’ve been a dating coach for 15 years now – married for the past 10 – and while focus is in helping women make healthier relationship choices, I also dated 300 women before getting hitched. For all you think it’s a great idea to have a wide texting harem, the most desirable women have even MORE options than you do.The Princess The Princess is confident, well put together, and very attractive. She still follows “The Rules” and requires that her man do what she wants when she wants. She’s a scorekeeper, and she alone decides when he’s given enough to satisfy her…or when he hasn’t and is history.The Princess has an “I deserve it” attitude and has little or no concern for how she can make the other person happy.She believes her sexuality is the only way she can attract a man, or she wants this point in her life to be a series of sexual experiences. She posts a provocative picture on her online dating profile, invites him over to her house on the first date, shows too much skin (especially for a woman over 40), and is overly familiar with her affection.The Sexpot offers herself up on the first date and is offended if her date doesn’t partake. Relationship-minded men may also say “yes” even though they may feel somewhat emasculated or turned off by her aggressiveness.
She mistrusts men and often blames herself for the rejection she’s felt, believing that she just wasn’t good enough.